When you see red......you see red

Day : May 6th 2007
Time : 9:34 PM

Me and my friend were watching "Anbudan" (a TV interview program conducted by Gowthami) .
On that day the guests were Prasanna and Director Raadhamohan(Alagiya Theeye director). The program was going on well until it came to a point which truggered an interesting conversation.

Let me explain the trigger point. Gowthami asked director Raadhamohan "You have come across so many hurdles and has reached this point. What you think, the young people, who are dreaming to come to this industry, should do ?", a routine question.

He answered "Nowadays people are coming to the industry with some background(my father is a director,my father is an old actor epdi ellam) without knowing what they are going to do. Those type of people should not even try to come to this industry. Being an actor is a great thing,it should be there within........"

Being puzzled with his answer Gowthami asked "So you are saying that there should be something born within him/her to come to this industry. Don't you think by applying him/her self someone can come up to this level in this industry?"

"No,sattila iruntha thaan agapaila varum,u should have something within yourself,it cannot come with training...."

My friend started applauding for that answer. I was kindled by that applause.
I asked him "why are you applauding and what is so spectacular about his answer?"

"Everyone has their own capacity and whatever you do, you cannot achieve something which is not born within u......." apdinnu sonnan.

I thought it was a ridiculous answer to be applauded. I told him "Nothing is born within someone.Everyone succeeds in their life by their own belief and application."

I said "If everybody is being packaged(lifekku thevayana uppu,puli,mulaga......) by superpower then nobody needs to struggle in their life to taste success. It's not like that.......
Oru porantha kulanthaikku firstu senai thanni vakkira alavu thaan namma genes la inborn power irukku......rest all is you,you and you only..........."

So,drop the idea of inborn power and start believing in the masala you are adding to your life.
WORLD IS WAITING FOR YOU...

DEWA

Didir Gnana Udayam

Saturday evening........I was in the middle of my late afternoon nap,my mobile phone started ringing....
It was my friend ................ asking me "Dai, oru long drive polama?" i said "ok"
We started our drive with some melodious music from Illayaraja's collections.

He asked me "Why people get adjusted with things very soon ?"

I replied in split second "Just to lead a happy life in this world.
hmm...people in recent times keep forgetting some basic principles"

He was not convinced with my answer and said that "We should try changing our principles based on what we need".On hearing this some gyan sparked in my mind.......
Oppurtunity combined with demand is the door to our life.
I asked him this question "What will you do if someone needs your help in some means desperately but something great is waiting for you?"
There is oppurtunity and demand in this situation in both directions (someone needing help and something great waiting for you)
Well,this is the answer my mind gave me which will happen in today's world in this situation.
For one's personal benefit people will forget their principles for that moment and live happily.Nobody wants to miss the waiting oppurtunity for the demand

After our long drive i was wondering why and how people get adjusted with things(good or bad) in life.A Normal person always look back for some guidance from our ancenstors.But most of the proverbs by our ancestors are not complete(they missed out the obvious thing,thinking that we will understand)

These are some of the things which occupied my mind at that time
Take for example "Live your life for today". The real meaning behind this is not that don't plan for the future but the meaning is don't lose ur present happiness for the future

Now the next one "Marappom......Mannippom". This proverb also says that we should forgive people's faults.But it is not that you keep adjusting with each and everything in life without even analysing them. When we keep adjusting people's faults we are not giving oppurtunity for others to correct their faults.

See u in my next blog
DEWA